Stop Thinking, Let Things Happen and Be the Bird
Written by: Scott W. Holland
It was Chevy Chase who played the part of Ty Webb, in the movie Caddy Shack who said, stop thinking, let things happen and be the ball. A few years later it was Dr. Wayne Dyer who said, “you must become someone new, to experience something new”. Those two comments and ideas have always resonated with me. And if you’ve followed my journey, you know I believe that personal transformation, through greater self-awareness and self-reliance, can begin by simply getting out into nature and watching the birds.
Now, I don’t think Wayne Dyer was suggesting that we literally become birds to experience change, but I do believe he was pointing to something deeper. That being the need to align our conscious self with our unconscious soul. And while that sounds profound and straightforward, it is often easier said than done.
In my view, the key to real change lies in trusting in what your soul is telling you is true and best for you. I believe we are all connected by one source, one energy that flows through all creation. And if we’re connected, then nature, and birds in particular, can serve as powerful guides to helping us live a more full and authentic life.
When you watch a bird, really watch it, you’ll notice something remarkable. There’s no wasted time. No second-guessing. That bird is completely in tune with its soul. It trusts itself and doesn’t fake anything. It just is.
That’s why I’ve always struggled with the phrase “fake it till you make it”. What are we really saying when we tell ourselves to fake it? We’re saying that we don’t believe in what we’re doing. That we’re pretending to be someone we’re not. There’s already too much pretending in the world today. And be honest, most people who fake it, aren’t happy people. You can’t fake your way to alignment, you have to believe it. You have to become it.
Instead of faking it, try being more like that bird. It’s not easy, it takes trust and courage, but the reward is worth it. And if you’re tired of feeling stuck, or used, or unfulfilled, then what have you got to lose?
Change your nature. Align your soul with your conscious behavior. Not just for a day or a weekend, but for real. For good. Next time you’re outside, find a quiet spot and watch the birds. Internalize their confidence and self-reliance. Think about that moment when a young bird takes its first step out of the nest. There’s no hesitation. No fear. Just purpose, belief and trust. Stop overthinking, let things happen and be the bird.